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Stop Resisting Your Growth!

Today, I want to tackle the idea of resistance. Ever felt it? Trying to reach your goals, make life better, and suddenly it's like you've hit a brick wall? What's that about? Well, let's get down to it.

Resistance isn't just in your head. It's physical. You feel it. Fear, anxiety, discomfort, heck, I even break into a sweat. It makes you want to throw in the towel, right? But hang on. Before we call it quits, we gotta understand where this resistance is coming from.

Let's dip our toes into some science, folks. Ever heard of The Law of Polarity or the Law of Opposites? It's all about energy, and resistance is a big player here. Say you decide to make a change in your life—put out some positive energy. By law, there's gonna be resistance—a bit of negative energy pushing back. It's like scales; the more positive energy you put out, the more resistance you'll face.

So, if you're feeling a massive wave of resistance, that's a good sign, believe it or not! It means you're shaking things up, making moves. You're on the right track.

Now, where does your mistaken identity come into all this? Well, in "Mistaken Identity," I explain how our self-perception often tricks us. We've been sold a bill of goods about our capabilities, usually from a young age. This mistaken identity influences how we see ourselves and our situations. It sets the level of resistance we face.

Now, depending on your viewpoint, some tasks might seem easy-peasy while others feel like climbing Everest. It's all about how you see yourself in relation to the problem.

When resistance hits, how do you react? Do you freeze up? Make excuses? Do you put things off, procrastinate, and then feel rotten 'cause you know you can do better? That's your mistaken identity playing tricks on you, making you believe those 'rational lies' to deal with the uncomfortable resistance.

But listen up, folks—resisting only makes things tougher. The key here is to let the resistance pass through you. It's just energy. Let it flow through you, and I guarantee you'll feel more confident. You won't be stuck in that frustrating standstill anymore.

If you're having a tough time moving ahead, grab a copy of "Mistaken Identity". It'll guide you to let go of that false image of yourself. You're not broken, so stop trying to fix yourself. Free yourself, feel better about who you are, and watch everything in your life improve.

Join my mentoring center for free. I'm there live and direct, ready to answer your questions and help you break free from that mistaken identity. We've got daily tips, and I'd love to meet you, talk to you, and help you live a better life.

So folks, don't resist shedding that mistaken identity. Take that first step today. You'll be amazed at the difference it can make. Thanks for listening, and remember to keep being you.

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