How I Found the Cure for Most of My Life Problems

After years of struggle and pain, I found The Cure for most of my problems in life.

The mental health system and self-help industry? They only offer band-aids—temporary fixes and coping strategies.

But what if I told you I discovered a cure for most of the problems in my life?

I know the weight of the past can feel suffocating. The stories we tell ourselves about who we are and what we've been through can shape our present and future in ways we don’t even realize. But I want you to hear this—you deserve a bright future.

I’ve worked with many people just like you—people who felt trapped by their past, constantly wondering what was “wrong” with them.

I’ve been there too.

For the longest time, I believed I had to dig up every painful memory to move forward. But here’s the truth I wish I had known sooner:

👉 You don’t need to keep looking back.

I’ll never forget the breakthrough I had while reading Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz. He describes the mind as an “Automatic Success Mechanism”—a system we can direct with our conscious, rational thoughts.

In simple terms: You shape your future by focusing on where you want to go—not by dwelling on what’s already happened.

And that’s the cure.

1. Stop letting your past define you. Change your mind about YOU.

2. Stop analyzing every experience—overthinking won’t set you free.

3. Stop worrying about the future. Instead, keep your head up and your eyes on where you’re going.

   
   

Guilt and regret won’t move you forward. The key is to focus on who you want to become and how you want to feel.

This isn’t just theory. This works.

I’ve seen it in my own life and the lives of others. I helped a young woman who had suffered trauma, someone who had spent years in therapy trying to understand and fix herself.

But the moment she shifted her perspective—when she finally realized her trauma wasn’t about her but something that happened to her—everything changed.

She was free.

And you can be, too.

The mental health system might tell you to keep revisiting your past. But the truth is, dredging up old wounds won’t heal you.

Your success mechanism only works in the present moment. When you change the way you see yourself and your past, the weight of it no longer controls your future.

I know it might feel easier to stay stuck. But the cure is right in front of you.You have the power to change your thoughts and beliefs about yourself. And if you believe you can move forward, you will.

You’ve got this. And I believe in you.

Doug Dane